Dontbeacrumqueen
Episodes
77 episodes
Attention is Not Affection
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today what I want to talk about is Attention is not Affection. What a statement. Do you misinterpret attention for affection? I know I di...
The Danger of "Potential"
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today I want to talk about seeing the “Potential” in someone especially when it comes to relationships. This is a topic that is very near and dear to my own heart ...
Love Bombing - Is it Happening to Me?
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today I want to talk about Love Bombing. This is a topic I’m pretty passionate about because I’ve lived it and I want others to be aware of it. In my opinion, it is...
Waiting is Hard
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today I want to talk about Waiting. Ugh.Waiting is Hard. It doesn’t matter if you are waiting on finding your special person or the right job or the right ho...
Having Self Respect
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Having Self Respect is what I want to talk about today. Why is it so important especially when it comes to relationships?Some will say it will protect you f...
Standards in Relationships
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. A word I’ve heard a lot of, especially in the dating/relationship world (and maybe you have too), is Standards. Apparently, it’s very important to have them and hold fast...
Finding Your Peace
Today’s topic is Finding Your Peace. This is not about me telling you how to find it but rather me simply sharing some of my own experiences in MY search for Peace.Whether they know it or not, there are so many people these days wh...
Are You Chasing or Attracting?
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. I have a question for you. In the context of relationships, have you ever thought about whether you’re chasing or whether you’re attracting?Well, I h...
When to End a Relationship
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today I want to talk about relationships. They certainly aren’t easy and ending them can prove to be very difficult especially when it comes to romantic ones.We ge...
Seeking Validation
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Have you ever thought about the ways in which you seek validation? Are you even aware that it’s something you do?As humans, we’re all designed to desire validation...
The "I Love You" Trap
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Today I wanted to talk about something that applies to not only those of us who are single but also to those of us who are in relationships, whether it be engaged, married or a...
Finding Your Person
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. So I’ve been thinking lately about this whole “single and wanting to meet someone” position many of us find ourselves in. Those thoughts inspired some questions. &...
Right or Wrong Person For You
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. Have you ever met someone and felt like you knew they weren’t the “right” person for you but you were drawn to them anyhow because it felt good? Deep inside you sensed it...
Dimming Your Light
Hey Everyone, welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. So as I’ve been reflecting back on my own Life experiences, one thing I’ve become aware of are the times when I allowed myself to “dim my Light” so the person I was with could ...
Turning Pain Into Power
Life can really deal us some heavy blows when it comes to pain. It can come in the form of loss, abandonment, rejection, or even disappointment on how Life has turned out.We ALL have stories to tell about how our hearts were broken...
Love Bombing - BEWARE
Welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. My name is Sher and I’m your host.Love bombing. Whether you’ve experienced it or not, most of you have probably heard the term especially as it relates to a narcissist. Al...
Your Confidence
Welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. My name is Sher and I'm your host. Today, I want to talk about confidence.We’ve all met them, men and women who exude confidence and walk with such purpose. When you are aro...
What Does Love Look Like
So, I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the word Love or even the words “I Love You” and what they mean. We all have a different interpretation and it is largely colored by what we did or did not receive growing up. There are also...
Relationships Reveal Our Wounds
I’ve been thinking a lot about relationships lately and how they affect us, whether that’s good or bad.As human beings, I believe we were created to want and enjoy relationships with others. Relationships are places where we hope t...
Re-Write Your Story
I wanted to talk today about the story we tell ourselves. Each one of us has a story and each one of us can absolutely REWRITE the narrative of our story. For a lot of us, the stories we’ve held onto began back in childhood.&...
Purpose in the Pain
Welcome to the Dontbeacrumqueen podcast. My name is Sher and I’m your host.I’ve been thinking lately about the phrase “Purpose in the Pain” and how Life changing it can be if we see our experiences through that lens.Living i...
What Cycles Are You Repeating?
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the cycles we tend to repeat especially when it comes to relationships. I guess it’s because I myself have been enlightened through my own experiences to see how I was repeating patterns in romantic r...
Manipulation Can Be Subtle
Today I wanted to share some thoughts regarding manipulation when it comes to relationships. This is something near and dear to my heart, probably because I’ve personally experienced it (in two completely different ways) in my past relati...